What can you do to re-romanticize your relationship on Valentine’s Day? As the common saying goes; Treat others, the way you want to be treated. Well, this is where many of us go wrong, because that is certainly NOT the case in relationships! When it comes to loved ones, the Golden Rule is: Treat your lover the way he/she wants to be treated! We dare to care and decided to share some expert tips from a professional Sex Therapist & Relationship Counsellor and cleverly designed products.

For example, you have always dreamt about getting red roses for Valentine’s Day, but for your partner the most romantic gift imaginable is gold class movie tickets. So, on Valentine’s Day your partner surprises you with these movie tickets, and will you be as happy as you can be? No!! In order to know what your partner wants, you have to step into their shoes and really think about what their needs are. When it comes to the bedroom, we often get lost. How can we bring back the romance in the bedroom for Valentine’s Day?

Well, let me help you along a bit. The biggest difference between men and women in the bedroom is their energies. A man’s energy is like ‘fire’, they are burning hot within a second and ready to jump. Whereas a woman’s energy is like ‘water’, and water takes a long time to boil! The good news is that a woman needs the man’s fire, in order to boil her water.

For women: The secret to bring a woman to boil is foreplay, but not the kind of foreplay that starts in the bedroom 2 seconds before sex. NO! Women need, what we call, emotional intimacy to be in the mood for sexual intimacy. They need to feel desired all day long. Therefore, as I always say: “Foreplay Away… All Bloody Day!” Why not plan a sensual date for Valentine’s Day and surprise your lover with a sensual massage to bring back the romance into your relationship. In order to create a delightful mesmerising sensual massage, I would suggest using the Kama Sutra Oil of Love. This is a kissable, silky smooth, water based oil that gently warms the skin as you blow onto it. It is the perfect gift for her, because it will spark your sensuality and romance and most importantly boil her water.

For men: It is ironic, because for men it is the exact opposite, they need sexual intimacy in order to be in the mood for emotional intimacy. So for Valentine’s Day, why not plan a sexual date, to spark his fire. I would suggest introducing some spice into the bedroom by introducing MONA – a sleek and stylish vibrator from the Swedish Lelo range and ideal for couples wishing to take their sensuality that little bit further. A great way to introduce this into the bedroom is by starting to massage him with it all over, excluding the genitals. A vibrator feels magnificent when you use it on muscle areas such as the back, legs, arms and neck. Once the vibrator is introduced as a massage tool, you can sneakily start using it as a sexual enhancer during sexual play to get your own water boiling.

Special guest contributor:
Désirée Spierings, Sex Therapist | Relationship Counsellor, Sexual Health Australia (SHA)

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